When you have a relationship with a sub, you may spend most of your time in the house. You have a lot of fun behind closed doors, but you have the whole world out there. You are going to want to go out and have fun without having to resort to going to a BDSM party with friends. If you develop your relationship, you should be able to go out while still maintaining domination over your sub. It may take some practice to get it right without drawing stares, but you can do it and your sub will love it.
Keep a Close Leash on Your Sub
The first thing to do is to let your sub know you are going to be watching every second of the time you are out. If they step out of line, you are going to punish them in bad ways which they can’t even think. Make sure they know you are in control even if you do not have an actual lease on your sub. Your commands will need to be followed at all times, or you will never take your sub out again.
Go on a Trial Run
Minimizing Punishment and Humiliation When Out
The most important thing you can do as a Master is to make your sub feel comfortable when out of the house. This is going to be scary for your sub to be out of the cage, so to speak, and it is your responsibility to make some changes to consider the feelings of your sub. This is a time when you are going to have to show compassion.
The best way you can make your sub feel comfortable is to minimize the amount of commands you are issuing. Also, you should never ask your sub to do something which is outwardly embarrassing or humiliating. It is one thing to ask your sub to lick the toilet seat at home and quite another to ask your sub to bark like a dog in public. As the Master, you have to think about your relationship and what is best for your sub.
When done right, going out with your sub can be a lot of fun and you can really stretch your legs as a Master. Remember to take it slow and watch for signs your sub is not comfortable and you will be going out again and again trying new things and new places together.