Wrong in all the right ways, pet play is just the thing to take your BDSM experience a step further. After all, why not literally have sex like animals instead of just making metaphors about it? It’s the perfect way to add a little spice to any bedroom encounter, and women are guaranteed to love it. Surprisingly, most women are into this, and will love playing dress up and pretend with you all night long. It might seem filthy, but really doesn’t that just make it more fun?
You can pretend that you or your girlfriend is any animal you want if you get creative enough, but there are a few kinds that tend to crop up frequently. Most commonly if you look up pet play practices, you’ll find links to pony, kitten, and puppy play. All of these are easy to do at home. Since people are familiar with these animals, it’s simple to figure out how you would impersonate said animal in a sexual context.
Pony play is typically done when the man is the sub and the girl is acting as the Dom, because she will literally be riding you around. Kitten play is typically very adorable, and let her be the sexy little cat she really is. If you want to engage in puppy play, then she’ll usually be the sub and will follow you around trying to get at you whenever she can. You can be the puppy, though, if you’re so inclined – it just means that you get to have a complete lack of inhibitions (and a collar for her to play with).
Each of these different techniques can use all sorts of toys, but some are different than what you would normally use during sex. For pony play, they make special butt plugs to use that actually have horse-like tails attached. You can also make it really realistic by letting her strap a saddle on you while she rides you around – and a riding crop can really get things heated.
Get your girlfriend a cute collar if she’s going to be your kitten or puppy, and for puppy especially make sure that there’s a leash attached. This gives you or her more control in the situation, and you can actually pull her back by it if she’s misbehaving. You don’t want to let your puppy get too spoiled. If you want to, you can also get pet toys to make it more realistic. Be sure to use your regular toys, too, to get the best results out of your pet play experience.
Cleanup for pet play is easier than the cleanup for a lot of other kinky BDSM antics – you mostly just have to worry about cleaning up your toys. Don’t leave dildos or butt plugs unwashed; they should be cleaned thoroughly after every use. Make sure to use specialized cleaners to keep your toys in tip-top shape, so you can engage in pet play again and again. Chances are she’ll be asking you for a repeat.