We don’t need to bother explaining what handcuffs are to you. You’ve seen them in movies, on television, and in photographs. Few of us have even felt them on our wrists in the un-sexiest of ways, and may have experienced using them with a beautiful woman. Handcuffs are great. They allow for just the right of bondage without being too overwhelming. However, the feel of cold steel wrapped around your wrists may not always be what you and your woman are looking for. If that is the case, there are ways to still enjoy the feel of handcuffs without having to deal with cold, unforgiving, steel.
What’s Your Theme?
You would be surprised with what you can use as handcuffs. With a bit of creativity and a couple of knot tying tutorials, you can have your lady’s wrists, and even her legs, bound in just a few minutes.
Handcuffing is a great way to ease your lady into bondage. It also requires a level of trust between the two of you. When your lady is willing to let you bound her wrists together, it’s showing her that she trusts you to not only keep her safe, but also to willing give you full access to her body.
But metal handcuffs can be uncomfortable and even a bit scary. Also, if you have a special theme going, you may not want to break it by pulling out a pair of cold, metal handcuffs.
For instance, if your theme for the night is sensuality and you’ve just finished giving your lady a nice oily rub down, instead of grabbing a pair of handcuffs, use a long, silk, satin, or nylon, scarf and bound her wrists together with it. The material is still sturdy enough for you to keep her wrists together, but it’ll also continue to play on sensuality theme.
If you and your lady are fans of fantasy role-play of captor and captive, toss her onto the bed and grab to use either her or your own long sleeve shirt to tie her wrists together. If you enjoy having her fight for dominance even when the shirt binds her wrists, have her raise her arms and force your head through the opening left between where the sleeves and shirt connect. With this, she can hold you down against her while you’re plowing away on top of her. It’s incredible.
Don’t Forget the Rope and Zip Ties
You don’t have to rely on cold steel, or fuzzy pink handcuffs that may turn you off. Use items you have around the house and never wonder where you put the handcuffs again.